Old souls are ahead of their time and do things differently when it comes to dating and love. If you have had your heart taken by someone who is an old soul, then help them fall for you head over heels. Below is a ways to do this.
- Talk to Them – Though this seems obvious, old souls truly enjoy a deep, intellectual conversation, even if it is not philosophical in nature. Try simple things like uncommon places of travel or books to read. They will appreciate your willingness to discuss anything with them as it opens the door for trust in you through your deepest thoughts and hopes.
- Maintain Eye Contact – Eye contact is powerful when dealing with old souls because they see it as an opening into your world and a connection. Holding eye contact can get intense, but it is also sexy. Keep eye contact with your crush and show them you are comfortable doing so while enjoying their company.
- Send a Note – Go old school and send a handwritten note to the old soul that is likely a bookworm. This will steal their heart and both your handwriting and words will reveal a great deal. It will make them feel special, just like a character from a book.
- Be Inventive – Dates should be simple, yet inventive to capture the old soul’s eye. While they are not likely a fan of the spotlight, they enjoy creativity. Try a trip to a unique restaurant, somewhere with spoken word performances, or enjoy a small festival to make their hearts sing.
- Show Affection – Old souls value alone time, but also enjoy affection. Never be afraid to hold them in your arms, caress them while cuddling, or offer small kisses during unexpected times.
- Be Straightforward – Never be afraid to be real with an old soul because they love and appreciate honesty. Sometimes, even brutal honesty will show them who you really are and they will appreciate such vulnerability.
- Always Confront – While old souls hate confrontation, if it is needed, then do not avoid it. Lay the problem out on the table and help them work toward a solution that encourages them to grow and learn.
- Value Small Things – Whether you find the beauty in a beautiful sunset sky or enjoying a warm drink on a rooftop bar, show the old soul how much you value such things. They will love that you enjoy the small things because it shows life is not being taken for granted.
- True Passions – When it comes to the things you are truly passionate about, do not be shy about sharing. Whether you are into indie films, prayer, animals, or whatever, share with your old soul. They will love the fire you have for the passion and the joy you are showing.
- Friend First – Before trying to be romantic with an old soul, become a friend. Establish a foundation for a soulful friendship and let it grow stronger over time as love takes over.